Tend · By Text Message
Text a number. An AI facilitator walks you through six premarital sessions — one question at a time. Your partner can do it separately. You share the results before the wedding.
Or text TEND to (256) 371-4599 to begin by text
The six sessions
Vision
What does the marriage look like five years in?
Money
What did money mean growing up — and where do you two differ?
Family
What you carry forward. What you leave behind.
Conflict
How you fight, and what happens when it goes wrong.
Intimacy
When you feel most known. When you feel most alone.
Vows
What you haven't said yet.
How it works
Text TEND
to (256) 371-4599. Takes 5 seconds.
Answer honestly
The AI asks one question at a time. Write as much or as little as you want.
Do it with your partner
Separately is fine. You share and compare at the end.
Bring it to your vows
Every session is saved. Use it with your officiant or keep it for yourselves.
“The wedding is one day. The marriage is the rest of your life.”
Text TEND to (256) 371-4599 to start your first session.
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